அன்பே சிவம்

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2009-03-30T13:35:00.002+08:00

Till my 22 yrs of age, I thought life is what we plan!!!

But now I understood life is something we accept and move forward!!!

Nice Fwd

2008-11-13T15:13:00.001+08:00

Dedicated to all parents who r against to LOVE MARRIAGE!!!

I got this fwd mail from one of my friend. Want to share with u guys...

A Beautiful Story

Dearest Appa, 27th Jan'1965

Hope this letter finds you, Amma, Raji and Seenu in good health. The weather here in New York City is icy cold. But Avar sollraar- I have missed this winter's biting cold. I still wish I had seen the snow… But then, I still wish I had not left Trichy at all. I do miss Trichy, Appa. You, Amma, Raji, Seenu, pakkatthaathu Rama, Vikatan, Ucchi Pillaiyaar Koil, filter coffee, Holy Cross College, the Physics Department and of course Sakthi. I know you wish I hadn't brought his name in this letter.But not to worry Appa, I understand that you got me married to Visu because you thought it was best for your daughter. I still remember Amma wiping her silent tears with her madisaar thalappu and you shouting at me the day I told you about Sakthi. Later, when the initial shock wore off you patiently listed umpteen reasons why I should not marry Sakthi. I agree Appa, that 20 is too young to decide, that Raji and Seenu would have been affected greatly by my 'mistake', the Agrahaaram would have scoffed at you… a meat eater was not a good match for someone who had never even tasted onion and garlic. The reasons were innumerous. I knew you'd still have objected and offered other reasons even if he had become a Dhigambara monk. Visu on the other hand, wore a poonal, he is the son of Neelakanta Sastri, an Engineer and he researched about computers which is what made you jump for this alliance. Am not complaining Appa, Visu is a nice man.

Tell Amma that I could not try her kozhakkattai recipe this Pongal because coconuts were too expensive and Avar nenacchar that it was ridiculous. Anyway, we went out on Sankaranthi day and dined out. He thought it would be a good idea to invite the Chatterjees also. But I didn't speak Bengali and Mrs.Chatterjee spoke English in an accent that comes with living years in America. Hence I made myself busy with the menu card. They ordered various species of fish,shrimp and a lot more of items I had never seen in my life. I ordered orange juice and a sandwich. The other diners thought it was queer coming to a seafood restaurant and settling for a sandwich. That day, I learnt that Avar prefer pannradhu beef, pork, bacon and seafood. Do you know, Appa… Sakthi gave up meat because of me? I didn't ask, he just did. But then, Sakthi is not Neelakanta Sastri's son and that made it imposible for Subramania Iyer's daughter Kalyani to marry him.

I will keep you posted on what happens here. I don't think I can make it to Seenu's Upanayanam. Tell Amma not to get me a pattu podavai for the poonal, I don't use them here. I wore it once and felt like a clown here.

Your loving daughter,
Kalyani.

Dearest Appa, 20th Oct'1968

We are fine here. Gautam is speaking his first words and I swear they sounded like 'Dosai'. But Visu claims it's just gibberish. From your previous letter, I gather that pakkathatthu Rama is married and settled in Jamshedpur. Nice to know that. Please find out her address from Saarada maami and write it to me. I want to keep in touch with her. I hope Raji is happy with her husband in Madras. I spoke to her last month, great to know that she has a phone. Do tell Seenu to study well and prepare for his school final exams. Raji also told me that Sakthi is married now. I wish him good luck, but I could not convey the message to him. Raji refused to be the messenger and I know you have severed ties with Sakthi's father, your long term friend Sankaravel, thanks to me. I hear his wife is his cousin… He must have succumbed to his mother's wishes.

How did Avani Avittam go? Visu's mother gave me a bunch of new poonals for Avani Avittam but Visu was in Boston that day. He wouldn't have used it anyway, I haven't seen him wear one in the last three years. Gautam is now playing with the spool of thread- mere thread it is, what else can I call it? Gautam will not even know what it signifies, I guess. Visu is making sure Gautam grows up listening to English only. He says it will make his life easier. But I do read out passages from Ponniyin Selvan and Bharathiyaar's poetry when I am alone with him. It's more of reading to myself, I guess. I actually got that poetry book as a present from Sakthi, it still has his scrawling signature in the first page.

By the way, Visu saw that book and asked me about Sakthi, I told him. Hold your breath Appa, he didn't throw me out of the house. He is a good man, no question. He said it is okay and that he doesn't mind. And then he told me of his American girlfriend whom he was once in love with, when he first reached America- Amy, a fellow Researcher who was in a brief relationship with Visu when she was in New York. They lived together for 3 months and decided against marriage, somehow. Amy once dropped home when she was in New York. Nice lady, she was.

Ask Amma to send me Sambar Podi for this whole year. My friend Sudha is coming to Madras next week. Ask Seenu to catch the Rockfort Express and give it to her. I will collect it from her here.

Your loving daughter,
Kalyani.

Dearest Appa, 3rd June'1974

We have arrived here safely. After two months in India, I find it hard to adjust back to normal life here. Gautam and Ranjana demand vadai,paayasam and vaazhai ilai here. Visu's relieved to be back in America. I left a set of my books there. If it's not in Trichy it must be in Visu's parents' place. If you find them, safeguard them until my next trip. They mean a lot to me since they were gifts from Sakthi. By the way, Appa, I found out Sakthi's present address in Madras from Rama and Saarada maami. I wrote to him. I am extremely proud to know that Dr.Sakthivel is a cardiologist much in demand there in Madras. He was thrilled to hear from me after so long. You know what he has named his daughters? Kalyani and Raagamaalika.

He called me. You know what, he's still a practising vegetarian, Appa. He didn't revert back just because he lost me… He asked me if I still sang and whether Gautam and Ranjana could sing. I could see a proud father in him, when he claimed his daughters could sing upto Ra ra Venu Gopala. That's when I remembered that I was once a good singer. I wonder why I stopped singing, wonder why I never exposed the kids to Music and Dance. But then, I realize that I had buried all that deep inside me when I left Trichy; after bidding farewell to my best Rasika, actually. Sakthi. After the call, I tried singing 'Kurai Onrum Illai'. I could not rquite reach Charanam, because of the lack of practice and more importantly because of the tears that filmed my eyes and the constriction in my throat. I sang to Visu and the kids one of these days. Though Gautam was impressed, father and daughter could not just wait for me to finish!

By the way, next time some friend comes to India, send me a Sruthi Box. I would like to start singing again.

Your loving daughter,
Kalyani.

Dearest Appa, 14th Aug 1978

Just back after our tour to California. Find our photos, picture postcards attached herewith. After you are done with showing all family members,relatives, friends and neighbours, pass them to Visu's parents. It was a welcome break for the four of us. But I missed my paattu class students all along and was happy to resume the classes again last evening. Did I mention in my previous letter, before we left on the tour - I finally got my driving license here. I sent a few photos to Sakthi too. He has sent me quite a few records and cassettes. I loved it! I'm reminded of AIR, almost! I'm circulating them among my friends too. And of course, playing them for my students too. They are picking up beautifully. Funny news is, I, a Tamilian, is teaching Telugu and Sanskrit kritis to a cross section of Tamil, Malayalam, Kannada,Telugu, Marathi, Bengali students in an English speaking nation.

The music sessions have resulted in a reborn Kalyani, Appa. Thanks to Sakthi, really. I would have never taken it up had it not been for his reminder. I am now thinking of what life would have been like if I had indeed married him. I would have of course lost you and Amma. But right now, with this life in America, Visu and these monthly letters to you, Rama, Raji and Seenu what have i gained? I don't find an answer, Appa. Neither do I think I ever will. Again, as I have always reiterated, Visu is a good man, no complaints there. He is every bit the son in law you wanted. Researcher, American Post Graduate Degree holder, a dutiful husband and father,earning a comfortable income. I know it is too much to ask for anything else. That is a fantasy I left midway in my life… Once upon a time in Trichy with someone else.

Your loving daughter,
Kalyani.

Dearest Appa, 14th Apr'1984

Met Dr.Sakthivel after 19 years… He had come to New York for business purposes and paid me a visit. Visu and the kids welcomed him home with great pleasure. And they liked him too. In fact, they did most of the talking initially. And of course, he got me a whole load of books, cassettes, Mysore Paak and lots more.

Your loving daughter,
Kalyani.

Dearest Appa, 20th Jan' 1990

I just went through all these letters lying in my closet draw for years together. These are letters I started writing to you and then decided not to post. For obvious reasons. I could not mention Sakthi to you even though I was itching to. Not because I was afraid to invite your wrath. I just did not have the heart to hurt you, I know these letters would have hurt you. Because deep inside, I know you were disturbed- you knew Sakthi was a good man, you knew he was a man of substance, yet you didn't want to go further. Society, I know. Family… I know… And all these letters would have only wounded you more. Today, 2 years after your death, and 6 months after Dr. Sakthivel's untimely death in a road accident, I somehow felt like re-reading all these letters. To me, all these unstamped, unposted letters mean a life that could have been.

MONEY - The Magical Word

2008-10-24T21:27:00.004+08:00

PS: Sorry nanbargale tamilil ezhuthuvathai tamil padika theriyatha nanbargalukaanga maatrikondean. Appa english la ezhutha veandiyathu thaana da naayenu neenga solrathu ennaku puriyuthu. Unarchigalai english la solra allavu ennoda writing skills develop aagala. Konja naal wait pannunga. [Tamil padika theriyatha thanglish padika therinjavanga romba pearu irukaanga]

Naagarigam vazhantha kaalathil irunthu panam endra disease manithanuku vanthuduchu. Ippa irukra Global crisis patthi yellam naan peasa poarathu illa. Panam oru manidhan vazhkayil evalavu kalanthurukunu thaan peasa poaroom.

1000 varushathuku munnadiye selvathukaaga(current word panam) manithan mirugam aaga thoodangitaan.Seri 1000 varusham munnadi yevan eppadi iruntha nammaku enna namma period ku varuvoom.

Panathukaanga oru manithaan evalavu panraanu oru list poaduvooma??? Ippa irukra sattathin thandanai padi list panren??

1) Panathukaaga oru manithaan uyiraiye edupathu

2) Panam endra bribe vaangitu society ku oppositea thappu seivathu

3) Panam selavaagumnu amma appa va kooda kaapathathavanga

4) Property (panam) kaaga own brothers and sistersaye yeamathuvanga and avanga kooda life fulla peasama irukravanga

5) And ithuku sattathil thandanai illama irunthaalum ithuvum solrean. MONEY kaaga namma amma appa relatives friends and our country ithu ellathayum vitutu foreign poaravanga sorry varavanga.

Intha blog padikum most of the ppl 1st and 2nd thappayo, thappu panravangalayo paaka chance kammi endru nambukirean.

But 3rd and 4th kandipa neenga pannalanaalum ungala suthi irukra yaaraiyavuthu paathurupinga. Namma own blood appa anna and thambiya money kaaga eppadi emmatha mudiyum?? konja kooda imagine panna mudiyala. Evalavo keavalamana sandai poadroom and romba pearu vazhkai fulla peasama irukaanga. Konjam kooda imagine panna mudiyala. Piranthu 20 vayasu vara panathooda arumaiye theriyathu amma appa thambi annanu paasama irukra manasu athuku appram eppadi panathuku pinnadi poaguthu??? 24 vayasula ennaku ithuku bathil theriyala but 40-50 vayasu aana theriyuma??

Vaanga 5th point ku. Ithu yellam money minde illa appadinu solringala??? naanga oru exposure, best education, cutting edge job ithuku thaan varomnu solringala????

Oru nimidam unga manasa kealunga 20000 rs kudutha intha cutting edge job, world's best education, new exposure ithu yellam sollitu kadal thaandi poavingala?? nee evalavu peasuriye nee enna dashuku singapore poanna and ithu ellam therinju innum yen anga irukanu neenga solrathuku ennaku puriyuthu??

Ithu ellam theriyuthu, ithu namma ooru illanu theriyuthu, relationship ooda importance theriyuthu, amma appa va paaka 3 months munnadiye plan panna veandiyatha iruku, relativesa yearly once paakurathe kashtam.. appadi irunthum intha panamnum veandam oru dubukum veandamnu solli INDIA poallamnu poaga mudiyala...

Athu naala thaan solrean MONEY IS A MAGICAL WORD!!!

~~~~~~~~~Ellathukum oru exception iruku so naan appadi illanu vithandavaatham pannathinga, naan majority pathi thaan peasurean~~~~~~~~~~~~~

A~T~T~I~T~U~D~E

2008-05-25T11:54:00.004+08:00

தோல்விகள், ஏமாற்றங்கள், நினைத்தது கிடைக்காமல் போவது எல்லாரோட வாழ்கையிலும் வருவது தான். ஆனால் அதை நாம் எப்படி எடுத்துக்கொள்கிறோம் என்பது தான் வாழ்க்கை நமக்கு சொல்லி தருவது.

எனக்கு 12 final examla எதிர்பார்த்ததை விட கொஞ்சம் குறைந்த மதிபென் தான் கிடைத்தது. வாழ்கையில் முதல் முறை ஏமாற்றம் தோல்வி. அந்த வயதில் என்ன செய்வது என்று எனக்கு தெரியவில்லை. என்னை விட பெரிய ஏமாற்றத்தில் என் பெற்றோர், அது என்னை இன்னும் கஷ்டத்தில் ஆழ்த்தியது. அப்போது எனக்கு தெரிந்தது ஒன்றே ஒன்று தான், அழுதேன், அழுதேன், அழுதுகொண்டே இருந்தேன்.

சில வருடங்களுக்கு பிறகு யோசித்தால் அது அவளவு பெரிசாக தெரியவில்லை. ஆனால் எனக்கு அப்போது ஏமாற்றங்களை ஏற்று கொள்ள தெரியவில்லை.காலங்கள் நகர்ந்தன, பெற்றோரின் கை பிடியில் இருந்து தனியாக வாழ கூடிய நிலைமைக்கு வந்தேன். 6 வருடங்கள் நகர்ந்தன, இந்த 6 வருடங்களில் நான் எதிர் பார்த்த வாழ்க்கை கிடைத்தது. பெரிய ஏமாற்றம் என்று எதுவும் கிடையாது. ஆனால் காலங்கள் மாறின, கடந்த சில மாதங்களில் எதிர் பாராத மாற்றங்கள் தோல்விகள் ஏமாற்றங்கள்.

ஆனால் 12 ஆம் படிக்கும் போது இருந்த சோகம் கவலை இப்பொது இல்லை. வாழ்கையை practicala பார்க்க முடியுது. இது நமக்கு கிடைக்க வில்லை என்றால் அதற்கு 60% ஏமாற்றம் கவலை இருந்தாலும் 40% நன்மையை பார்க்க முடியுது. இந்த 6 வருடம் கற்று குடுத்தது இதுதான் என்று இப்போது தெரிகிறது.

ஆனால் வாழ்கையில் சில மனிதர்களுக்கு எந்த தோல்வியும், ஏமாற்றமும் வந்தது இல்லையே, அவர்களுக்கு நினைப்பது எல்லாம் கிடைக்கின்றதே என்று எனக்கு வியப்பாக தோன்றி உள்ளது. ஆனால் அது அப்படி கிடையாது என்பது எனக்கு தெரிய பல ஆண்டுகள் ஆனது.

90% மக்கள் வாழ்கையை எதிர் பார்த்து தான் வாழ்கிறோம் ஆனால் அவர்கள் வாழ்கையை அதன் போக்கில் எடுத்து கொள்கிறார்கள். அதனால் எல்லாமே அவர்களுக்கு வெற்றி தான், ஏமாற்றம் என்பதே கிடையாது. இது அனைத்துமே ஒருவரோட ATTITUDE la தான் இருக்கு.

பின் குறிப்பு : நான் மேற்படி கூறிய நபர் நம்முடன் BE படித்தவர்.

இனிமே வாழ்கைல நம்மளோட ATTITUDE மாத்துறது கஷ்டம். அதுனால நண்பர்களே உங்களுக்கு கல்யாணம் ஆகி உங்களுக்கு குழந்தை பிறந்து பிறகு. அதற்கு இந்த மாதிரி ATTITUDE கற்று குடுங்க. இன்று என் நண்பனின் குழந்தைக்கு பேர் வைக்கும் நிகழ்ச்சிக்கு போகிறேன் . எனவே நன்றே ஆரம்பிக்கட்டும் அதுவும் இன்றே ஆரம்பிக்கட்டும்.

A-T-T-I-T-U-D-E Really M-A-T-T-E-R-S

தனிமை

2008-05-21T12:18:00.001+08:00

வாழ்க்கையில் எந்த தனிமையை பார்த்து பயந்து சிங்கப்பூர் வந்தேனோ..

இப்போது அதே தனிமை :(

"நான்கு கண்ணாடி சுவர்களுக்குள்ளே நானும் மெழுகுவர்த்தியும் தனிமை தனிமையோ!!!"
- இது இல்லை என்னோட தனிமை.. இது பிரிவின் சுகம்..

சிறையில் தனியா இருப்பது போல் :(

ஏன் டா இப்படி தத்துவமா பேசுற என்று கேட்டால்...

காதல் என்றால் கவிதை வருது.. சோகம் என்றால் தத்துவம் தான் வருது...

நான் ஏன் இதை எழுதுகிறேன் என்றால் சில வருடங்கள் கழித்து படித்து ரசிக்கத்தான்..

சுஜாதாவின் பத்து கட்டளைகள்

2008-05-16T19:29:00.002+08:00

நான் படித்து ரசித்த சில துளிகள் - நன்றி orkut

1. ஒன்றின் மேல் நம்பிக்கை வேண்டும், ஏதாவது ஒன்று. உதாரணம் கடவுள், இயற்கை, உழைப்பு, வெற்றி இப்படி எதாவது… நம்பிக்கை நங்கூரம் போல. கேள்வி கேட்காத நம்பிக்கை. கேள்வி கேட்பது சிலவேளை இம்சை. நவீன விஞ்ஞானம் அதிகப்படியாகக் கேள்வி கேட்டு இப்போது தவித்துக் கொண்டிருக்கிறது.

2. அப்பா, அம்மா இரண்டு பேரும் வேலை சொல்வது பல சமயங்களில் கடுப்பாக இருக்கும். ஒருமாறுதலுக்கு அவர்கள் சொல்வதைச் செய்து பாருங்கள். அவர்கள் கேட்பது உங்களால் செய்யக் கூடியதாகவே இருக்கும். பொடிநடையாகப் போய் நூறு கிராம் காப்பி பவுடர் (அ) ரேஷன் கார்டு புதுப்பித்தல் இப்படிதான் இருக்கும்.

3. மூன்று மணிக்குத் துவங்கும் மாட்டனி போகாதீர்கள். க்ளாஸ் கட்பண்ண வேண்டி வரும். தலைவலி வரும். காசு விரயம். வீட்டுக்குப் போனதும் பொய் சொல்வதற்கு ரொம்ப ஞாபக சக்தி வேண்டும். இந்த உபத்திரத்துக்கு உண்மையைச் சொல்லிவிடுவது சுலபம். இளமைக்காலம், ஒளிக் கீற்றைப் போல் மிகவும் குறைந்த காலம், அதை க்யூ வரிசைகளிலும் குறைபட்ட தலைவர்களுக்காகவும் விரயம் செய்யாதீர்கள்.

4. நான்கு பக்கமாவது ஒரு நாளைக்குப் பொது விஷயங்களைப் படியுங்கள். பொது விஷயங்கள் என்றால் கதை, சினிமா, காதல் இல்லாதவை. உதாரணம் - யோக்கியமான செய்தித்தாள், மற்ற பேரைப் பற்றிக் கவலைப்படும் பத்திரிகைகள் அல்லது லைப்ரரியிருந்து ஒரு புத்தகம்.

5. ஐந்து ரூபாய் சம்பாதித்துப் பாருங்கள். சொந்தமாக உங்கள் உழைப்பில், முயற்சியில், யோக்கியமாக, மனச்சாட்சி உறுத்தாமல். அடுத்த முறை அப்பாவிடம் ஆயிரம் ரூபாய்க்கு ஷர்ட், சுடிதார் கேட்கும் முன்.

6. இந்தச் தகவல்களை படிக்கும் நிலைமை பெற்ற நீங்கள் இந்திய சனத்தொகையின் மேல்தட்டு ஆறு சதவிகித மக்களில் ஒருவர். அன்றாடம் சோற்றுக்காக அலையும், வசதியில்லாத கோடிக்கணக்கான மக்களைத் தினம் ஒரு முறை எண்ணிப் பாருங்கள்.

7. வாரத்தின் ஏழாவது தினமான ஞாயிறன்று என்ன செய்தாலும் காதல் பிஸினஸ் வேண்டாம். காதலுக்கு ரொம்பச் செலவாகும். மனம், வாக்கு, காயம்(உடல்), எல்லாவற்றையும் ஆக்கிரமிக்கும் தீ அது. பொய் நிறையச் சொல்ல வேண்டும். வினோதமான இடங்களில் காத்திருக்க வேண்டும். இந்த வயதில் நாசமாய்ப்போன படிப்புத்தான் உங்களுக்கு முக்கியம்.

குறிப்பு: பெண்களை சைட் அடிப்பதும், கலாட்டா பண்ணுவதும், அவர்களுக்கு கர்சீப் முதலியன ரோடிலிருந்து பொறுக்கிக் கொடுப்பதும், உபத்திரமில்லாத கவிதைகள் எழுதுவதும், காதலோடு சேர்த்தியில்லை.

8. எட்டு முறை மைதானத்தை சுற்றி ஓடினால் எந்தச் சீதோஷ்ணமாக இருந்தாலும் நெற்றி வியர்வை அரும்பும். எதாவது தேகப் பயிற்சி செய்யவும். கடிகாரத்துக்குப் சாவி கொடுப்பதோ சீட்டாடுவதோ தேகப் பயிற்சி ஆகாது. எதையாவது தூக்குங்கள், எதையாவது வீசி எறியுங்கள். உங்கள் உடலில் ஊறும் உற்சாகத்துக்கு ஓர் ஆரோக்கியமான வடிகால் தேவை. ராத்திரி சரியாக தூக்கம் வரும். கன்னா பின்னா எண்ணங்கள் தவிர்க்கப்படும். ஒழுங்காக சாப்பிடத்தோன்றும். பொதுவாகவே சந்தோஷமாக இருக்கும்.

9. ஒன்பது மணிக்குள் வீட்டுக்கு வரவும். மிஞ்சிப் போனால் ஒன்பது மணி இரண்டு நிமிடம். ஒரு மணி நேரம் பாடம் அல்லது புத்தகம் படிக்கலாம்.

10. படுக்கப் போகும் முன் பத்து நிமிஷமாவது அம்மா, அப்பா, அண்ணண், தங்கை யாருடனாவது பேசவும் (பேசுவது என்று சொன்னவுடன் காதலியுடன் என்று நினைக்க வேண்டாம், நான் சொன்னது குடும்பத்தினருடன் மட்டும்). எதாவது ஒரு அறுவை ஜோக் அல்லது காலேஜில் நடந்த நிகழ்வுகள். சப்ஜெக்ட் முக்கியமில்லை. பேசுவது தான்.

இந்த பத்தில் தினம் ஒன்று என்று முயற்சி செய்து தான் பாருங்களேன்.

GOD???

2008-05-15T03:05:00.008+08:00

Everyone have their own idea about GOD..

For Someone GOD is Supreme Power

For Someone GOD is Faith

For Someone GOD is Love

For Someone GOD is Divine

But for me GOD is a Life Balance. He will balance your life to go in a steady pace. Once u feel u r happy with no problems around you he balance your life with problems to tackle and once you feel very low & having lot of problems, he will balance your life giving good people around you to solve the problem.

Because its untold truth that life should made of Success and Failure
Up's and Down
Happy and Sorrow
Good and Bad

Newton is GOD, i don't know whether his third law holds for science but it really holds for Lifeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

Every time i feel it in my life!!! I think everyone feel the same thing....

பள்ளி பருவம்!!

2008-02-26T02:25:00.004+08:00

2000 ஆம் ஆண்டு பிறக்கும் குழந்தையின் கதி என்ன??

கவலை இல்லாமல் வாழும் அந்த அழகிய நாட்கள் எஙகே சென்றன??

6 வயதில் பள்ளிக்கு போகும் காலம் மாறி 4 வயதாகி இப்போது 2 வயது குழந்தையை பள்ளிக்கு அனுப்புகிறார்கள்.. அடுத்து வரும் குழந்தை ஆஸ்பத்திரியில் இருந்து பள்ளிக்கு தான் எடுத்து செல்வார்களோ??

Tution என்பது படிக்காத மாணவர்கள் செல்லும் இடமாக இருந்தது ஆனால் நான் படிக்கும் போது 11 & 12 படிக்கும் அனைவரும் tution சென்றோம்.. இப்போது 5 வயது குழந்தை முதல் 12 ஆம் வகுப்பு படிக்கும் அதிக பேர் tution செல்கிறார்கள்.. காலையில் பள்ளி மாலையில் tution என்ற MBA வாழ்க்கை இந்த சின்ன வயசுல தேவையா??

கால் ஆண்டு அரையாண்டு மற்றும் முழு பரிக்ஷை விடுமுறையில் தாத்தா பாட்டி ஊருக்கு மற்றும் சுற்று்லா , நண்பர்கள் உடன் வி்ளையாட்டு என்று சுற்றி திரிந்த நாட்கள் சென்று ஸ்பெஷல் வகுப்பு, extra curricular வகுப்புகள் என்று 365 நாட்களும் உழைக்க வேண்டிய நிலை தேவையா??

இன்ஜினியரிங் மற்றும் டாக்டர் தான் நல்ல படிப்பு என்ற எண்ணம் வந்ததுக்கு யார் காரணம் ??

பரிட்சையில் தோல்வியினால் தற்கொலை செய்து கொள்ளும் மாணவர்களின் எண்ணிக்கை உயர்தந்துகு காரணம் யார் ??

"பள்ளி பருவம் மறுபடி கிடைக்காதா" என்று நான் அனுபவித்த அந்த நாட்களை எனக்கு அடுத்து வரும் தலை முறைக்கு கிடைக்காமல் போய் விடுமோ என்ற பயத்தில் எழுதுகிறேன்!!!

Love is ????

2007-12-14T13:43:00.000+08:00

Love – Kaadhal endra diseaseaala 90% of world population affect aayirukaanga and the remaining 10% athu enbha noaiya illa thoonbha noaiyanu research paniya avanga lifea waste panranga(Status reportaa googlea search pannathinga).. Appadi ulla 10% la irukkura oruthaan thaan naan.. Ennaku Love la konja doubts irukku.. So athaa clarify panna thaan intha blog..

Love paathiyoo lovers paathiyoo namma peasa veandam because lot of movies and books are there.. so directa naan en questionuku varean..

Love and Lovers, itha en lifela last 12 yearsa naan paakurean.. Intha 12 yearsla lot of lovers and their love story naan paathachu and now paathukitum irukean.. Ithu vara naan pathaa loversuku kaadhal varathuku 3 reason thaan irukku.. athaa naan unga kitta solrean.. if u ppl find thts wrong or did I miss anything.. please post ur comments..

- A boy or girl didn’t get a proper support frm their parents or friends or their relatives.. Avanga inba-thunbangalai share panna oru thoaal illaatha poathu..

- When they really had a bad time in their life.. Lifela avaangaluku mana kashtamo, panam kashtamo, body problem, it may be anything.. athu rumba hurt aagum poathu..

- Even whn we have a gud parents and gud friends, we need a shoulder(opposite sex) to take care ourself.. Ennathaan ammavum nanbanum kayilla sumanthaallum, naamuku oru partner illaye avanga madiyil padukum aasai varum.. ( eppadi iruntha kalyanam panniranum)

Eppa oru boy/girl intha situationla irukkanoo appa oru poanoo / payanoo 10% avangala impress panna kooda thy fall in love.. There is one more reason, they attract with physical attraction and they don’t know tht s infactuationu and thy feel proud tht thy fall in love… Ithu thaan nadakuthunu naan solla varala.. naan paarthathunu solla varean.. It may be 99% false but 1% unmaiyavuthu irukkumnu namburean…

So ippa namma questionuku poagallam..

Ithu thaan kaadhala?????

Ippadi varukinra Kaadhal Unmai thaanaa????

Ithu Illai Endraal Unmai Kaadhal Enbathu Enna???

The total thing s stupid and nothing s happening in real life nu feel panna kooda.. u can post ur views or just scold me..

If more than 50 % of u feel its right thn I have many things to ask u abt love..

Last Time Study!!

2007-11-28T21:24:00.001+08:00

Intha blog paadikum yeathana pearu last minute padichitu exam yeazhuthuvinga... Pls add my name with you.. Since frm my school days i just study @ last time and just vomit.. i never studied for knowledge in the school days.. the only subject i read with interest is maths.. thn i entered college... :) u all know 99% students in coll do the same thing... so i joined tht community..

1st and 2nd semla we studied for internals and read well-before exams.. thn we get used to coll life so in 2 & 3 yr we just study 1 hr before internals and only in study holidays for sem.. the biggest comedy is in 4 yr after we got placed... we didnt study for internals and for sem night matum thaan.. sometimes i feel very bad for tht..

Successfully finished my coll without any arrears.. :) i said to me @ last exam of BE tht it s the last time i m preparing for exam.. thn as per my plan i joined wipro and life moves cool.. thn by fate i joined in NTU - Singapore..

NTU kedaicha udane.. i plan to study every day and refer books in library.. have to learn frm basics.. eppadi yeanomaoo plan paanean.. Classes started.. First week class la romba kashta paatu kavaanichean..

After 1 week i bought a new laptop.. athooda seri.. Laptop was my long time plan.. so start researching it and spend lots of hrs in front of it.. everyday movie and we enjoyed a lot.. thn we started a very gud habit.. Classaa cut aadikrathu.. appram solla vera venduma..

1.5 months moved like JET.. didnt know whts in book and never studied a bit.. thy start giving assignments.. appa thaan book yeaduthu paadichi konjam copy aadichi.. last min vara yeazhuthi.. assignmentaa submit paanoom..

3 months over.. thn it was only 1 month for semester.. but padikanumnu oru feelea varala.. i feel really bad..thn atlast it was only 1 week.. we njoyed diwali and watched movies in last 1 week.. exactly before 4 days, i have started studying..

The last minute study for all the 4 papers and finished the 4 papers.. Thn i conclude tht i (includes u also) never study well-before the exam and i start only at last min.. since i take a break for 2 yrs working in wipro.. i thought i forget how to study..

I didnt get my 1st sem result.. so ppl of last min study pls wait till my result and thn decide whether its right to continue or to change ur study style..

We ppl never change in life even we study in Harward!!! ha ha ha

Transition in LIFE!!!

2007-11-28T20:49:00.000+08:00

Hi Friends,

This is a different blog since i m writing this blog in singapore airport.. Before some years whn i was in college i don't know whether i will go in flight and i will just open my mouth whn i saw someone use laptop before me.. but now i m using my laptop in airport and writing my blog.. Anything is possible in life by losing other things in life.. U know thts life!!!

Thank God!!

2007-11-02T02:05:00.000+08:00

I really thank GOD on my 23rd Bday..

The reason is

1) I really had a gr8 parents and relatives

2) The second best thing is, i really had a bunch of superbbbbbbbb friends..

They both shape my life to ........... ( U can fill any gud sorry superb word here )

Thanks to All!!! For the journey of 23 yrs with me!!

I ask God to give thm for my remaining years..

Nice Dialogue from a Nice Movie

2007-10-31T23:16:00.000+08:00

Recenta oru nalla padam paathean... Its really superb love story.. Try to see the Movie..

OOh sorry padam peara sollaalaiyoo!! Its "Little Manhattan"

A piece of dialogue to explain this wonderful movie..

"Love is an ugly, terrible business practiced by fools. It'll trample your heart and leave you bleeding on the floor. And what does it really get you in the end? Nothing but a few incredible memories that you can't ever shake"

Entertainment Time

2007-10-05T12:53:00.000+08:00

Many of u r in Foreign Countries missing their family and friends..

For those ppl i will give u the movie and tamil tv channel links to njoy the time away frm ur loved ones

I will Just rate it according to the site's database

Tamil Movie Links

1) http://www.techsatish.com/ - Contain many films and songs
2) http://stage6.divx.com/ - Contain limited films but all the contents r in divx format
3) http://videoduniya.com/
4) http://www.bharatmovies.com/
5) http://www.videomasti.net/
6) http://itsecurity.tmvz.com/videoportal/Movie%20Database/latest-tamil-movies/
7) http://www.megaupload.com/?f=yfubx23w - If u want to download movies use this one

English Movies

1) http://www.tv-links.co.uk/listings/4 - Contain most of the english movies and update every day
2) http://www.dailymotion.com/us
3) http://www.livetvhub.blogspot.com/
4) http://www.wizmovies.com/list.html
5) http://www.videohybrid.com/
6) http://openflv.com/
7) http://quicksilverscreen.com/
8) http://www.ssupload.com/media-1104.html
9)http://www.movieforumz.com/forumdisplay.php?s=7a43cf6c1b03eb2a133eddd72d3147c4&f=55
10) http://www.vid2c.com/
11) http://joox.net/cat/2
12) http://www.kazoop.net/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=4&Itemid=24 - List the top 10 live streaming movie site for 2007

Tamil Channels

1) Star Vijay - http://blog.karthikeyan.co.in/posts/star-vijay-tv-online-live-streaming-free-on-the-net/
2) Jaya Tv - http://blog.karthikeyan.co.in/posts/star-vijay-tv-online-live-streaming-free-on-the-net/
3) Sun TV - http://blog.karthikeyan.co.in/posts/sun-tv-online-live-streaming-tamil-channel-free-on-the-internet/
4) K TV - http://blog.karthikeyan.co.in/posts/k-tv-online-live-streaming-tamil-channel-free-on-the-internet/
5) Raj Tv - http://www.techsatish.tv/2007/05/raj-tv-india.html
6) For all Sports and news channesls - http://www.techsatish.tv

Tamil FM Channels

1) Aahaa FM - http://blog.karthikeyan.co.in/posts/aahaa-919-fm-radio-online-live-streaming-from-chennai/
2) Suryan FM - http://blog.karthikeyan.co.in/posts/suryan-suriyan-fm-live-from-chennai-online/

First Cooking Experience

2007-10-05T12:12:00.000+08:00

Life la naan cook pannuveanu ninachu kooda paathathu illa... But finally naan kooda cook panrean..

Every man feel happy and proud when they first do some special thing like "First time riding bike" "First time love" "First time ppl around see as Man from a boy" and the same feeling i got when i individually cook the pepper chicken..

We came to singapore 2 months back but inga vanthu i cook only small things and helped my friends in big items and this is the first time i cook a gud item on my own..

I was little bit nervous because last week samacha veg rice romba keavallamavanthuchu.. so i told my friends "eppadi varumnu theriyalla" so adjust pannikonganu..

But nalla samaikanumnu ulla oru thought.. so i started cooking chicken and do every thing very carefully.. Finalla taste panni paakom poathu nalla irunthuchu... athaa vida my friends superaa irukkunu solli saapidum poathu romba happya irunthean..

I thank my Mom to help me for the wonderful receipe.

Thank u MOM!!!

LiFe iN SiNgApOrE!!

2007-09-11T01:41:00.001+08:00

I started from my uncle's house to airport with my parents.. First time flightla poaroomnu konjam santhosham irunthaalum i didnt feel the happiness inside me.. all my close friends came to airport so feel panna kooda time illa.. i fully engaged with laughing the full (final) time with my friends.. but appa ennaku theriyalla naan lifela yeavallavu thingsa veetutu poaromnu.. but now i feel it..

Naanum abuvum alagarum flightla enter aaguroom.. abukum, alagarukum seated near window and i m seated in the corner of the 4 seater row.. but no one sat in the remaining 3 seats till last min( but flight start aanathuku apparam oru paana sorry poannu vanthu nalla paaduthu thoonguchu in the 3 seats).. naanum abuvum oru dealuku vanthoom.. exchange the abu's window seat after 2 hrs nu..

Naanum alagarum mudivu pannitoom flightla thoonga koodathunu and have to eat & njoy all the things during the journey.. so we get all the things thy serve in the flight (except drinks).. konjam stylaa keakallmnu solli fooda non-veg nu (US stylea ) sonnean.. she misunderstood and gave me Veg food (first bulb) in flight.. Then alagar oru bulb vaangunaan.. thy serve coffee with stirrer and he thought its spoon to drink coffee, so he try to take coffee with tht spoon.. we (abu & me) noted it.. thts all alagaruku oru periya bulb.. we really njoyed the flight journey.. then me & abu xchanged the seats.. i waited for the sun to see the sea in a clear view.. unfortunately the flight reached the land whn the sun came..

We reached singapore airport.. we have seen flight take off for every 30 sec in singapore airport.. i have the feel to land my leg in the foreign soil for the first time.. it did something inside me.. thn we came out and see muthu waiting for us outside.. We hired the Benz taxi (first time Benz journey) and go to our home..

Muthu explained the city, cars, buildings, ppl, rules, etc during our journey.. singapore looks like a big garden.. i cant see sand in any places.. fully greenish!!! now i feel tht i m in a foreign country.. thn we reached our home.. at first i didnt like the home because the owner keep the house unclean and very dirty.. but after we regulate,it looks like a home - sweet home..

Next day naanum muthuvum registrationuku college poaroom.. we thought coll na namma oru coll maathiri irukumnu.. so we start walking frm the point where the bus stop in the main road( we dont know tht we have to take another bus to travel diff points in univ nu).. after we walk 3 km we entered the coll main gate(only main gate).. appa thaan purinchithu coll evaalavu perisu nu.. thn my friends stayed in hostel told innum 3-4 km poaganum registration placeuku nu.. so we take internal shuttle.. i didnt have any expectation abt my coll... so coll paathavudane romba pidichiduchu.. its like 6 km area and we cant walk around all the places.. coll fulla superb buildings and my coll is called garden coll.. so u just think how it would be.. i just attach a small photo of my coll..

For the first 2 weeks we totally filled with registration, medical test, bank acc, loan. visa, student pass.. so we finished all the process in first 2 weeks.. thn coll start aachu.. intially naan ninachean daily paadatha annaike paadikanumnu.. but nama 21 yrs pallakam maaruma.. we spent all time chatting and watching movie.. thn i bought a new laptop (my dream for last 2 yrs).. appram solla vera veanuma.. spending full time in laptop..

Assignmentnu onu kuduka aarambichanga appa thaan padikanumnu thoonichu.. namma ooru maathiri Ctrl C & Ctrl V poada koodathunu seniors sonnanganu naana paadichi, solve panni assignment poatean.. Mudiyalla!!! 3 days fully tight with assignment then i take 2 days rest for tht..

Intha periodla thaan ennaku oru feel.. Naama yean inga vanthoomnu because i was very happy in chennai.. staying with my close friends, relatives and have a gud job.. flexi time office, gud salary, gud friends in office, both uncle staying very near to home, monthly home town visit, friends, namma chennai, every week 2 movies, every week new hotels, spencer, citi centre, inox, satyam, midnight beaches, bike ride.. sorry i cant able to list all the things.. feelingaa irukku..

Itha yellam vittutu i was here in singapore and putting this much effort for my studies.. i was gud here with my friends.. but naan anga iruntha allavu inga happya illa.. i donno whom to blam for this??? its praveen, major & anand??? or me??? or fate??? first time in my life something happened which is not in my hand...

For the last 2 yrs in wipro i didnt think of spending money for anything.. but inga oru cent spent panna kooda 3 times think panna veandiyatha irukku... intially i think of spending even for food.. but now i changed myself and spend enough for food.. the toughest think is spending ur money like anything and getting money frm dad and spending it!!! i feel it now!!

I thank GOD for one thing, he gave me lot of friends here in singapore.. if i was alone in singapore thn i will become a psycho.. ippa mindla oru vishayam thaan fixed aa irukku.. go and settle in Chennai ASAP.. but i m 100% sure tht i cant get my previous life in chennai..

But intha Blog yellathoom poathu think panrean... i just want to chat with my x room mates @ 12 night in beach, bike ride to my office, spent time with my mama.. but i can only feel it and i cant able to njoy it hereafter.. finish this blog now with heavy heart!!!

Turning Point in Viki's Life

2007-08-17T23:23:00.000+08:00

Yellaaroda Vaalzhkaillum Oru Unexpected twist or turning nadakum.. Appadi naadanthathu yean lifelayum..

Life romba happya poachu wiprola.. no tension, nalla salary, namma ooru, lots of friends and relatives and parents staying close.. but atha vittutu paadikaa poara soolnillai.. there r many reasons tht forced me to choose to do MS..

BE final exam appa ninachean.. Lifela innime book,exam yeathuvoome vara koodathunu.. but fate enna vidalla..

I resigned wipro and nalla one month veetla irunthean , counting the final days in India.. thn the day came to leave India, Family, Friends, Salary..

Ennaku romba bayamoo home sickoo illa whn i start frm home.. Since i m going with 2 of my class mates and i have lot of friends there in singapore.. But some feelings whn i miss the home, my office, my house in chennai, my friends, my relatives..

Chennaiil oru malai kaalam

2007-06-21T14:49:00.000+08:00

If u r in chennai for the past 4 months thn u dont believe the climate for the last 2 days in chennai.. We didnt see the Sun for the past 2 days.. its drizzling through out the day.. temperature around 26 degree.. u wont believe it right!!! njoying the chennai climate!!! Cool (Boss Style)!!!

Movie Review - Sivaji

2007-06-20T15:10:00.000+08:00

I like to share my review with u ppl abt the movie's which i saw recently... Lets start the first movie review with my thalai Super star Rajini's Sivaji - The Boss

I have seen the movie twice on saturday and sunday.. Fine lets start the review..

I know the story and the review thursday night itself from my friend rakesh who saw the film @ singapore. Avanukku padam romba pidikalla.. so my expectation level goes low.

Saturday afternoon i entered mayajaal to watch sivaji.. Naan poagum poathe padam start aagiduchu.. badly missed 3 min :(.. thalai peru poadum poathu naan illa..

The first half is full of vivek , shriya, comedy and rajini usual scenes.. so i thought in the same way like rakesh tht the movie is not superb nu.. The songs are so gud to watch in the big screen.. the two gr8 songs in the first half is vaaji vaaji and oru kudai.. superb songs.. tht makes the first half intresting.. i was sitting with my friend who saw the movie yesterday itself and watching second time with me and he knows the rocking scene in the movie and get ready to dance at the scene.. so i have an idea abt whn the next punch scene will come..

At the intrevel we discussed like "first half is gud da but it was not upto the level".. we have a hope tht second half will be superbnu since the first half end in singa moogam (thalai hair style changed)

Enter after intervel.. thn i dont have any time to think any other things other then sivaji.. wowwww!!! hair style, dress, punch dialogue, songs.. yellam super!! Yella rajini padathukum yennaku oru scenukaavuthu "pull arikkum" but i didnt feel it till Athirdi song.. but the introduction of rajini in atiradi song is simply superb.. i feel it!! if u r a hard core rajini fan thn u will definitely njoy tht song..

Shirya looks superb and costumes are perfectly cool for her.. Mottai rajini thaan highlighte padathulla.. chancea illa.. wht a performance...

I really njoy the second half.. ooh i missed abt the sahana song.. superd art direction by thotta tharani.. brilliant work.. complete glass work and waterfall behind the set.. superb song..

Overall : Sivaji Pera Keataale Athiruthu!!! Cool movie

+ : Rajini, Costumes and hair style, Song Picturisation, shriya

- : Same comedy sequence, Same story, Long first half

Muthal Naal Indru

2007-06-19T22:12:00.000+08:00

Naam vazhkailla naama yevallavoo vishayam paakiroom keakiroom.. athai yellam annaivarudan share pannikathaan intha blog.. yean diary.. i will post the things tht affect me in both positive way and in negative way..
Friends... please keep this blog alive!!!